you could and you would.

‘You’re so strong. I could never do what you do’.

You could. And you would.

If I had a dollar for every time someone told me they ‘could never’ do what Zach and I are doing right now when it comes to Jackson, I would have enough to pay for one set NIRS for, like, half a day. It’s meant to be a statement of support, of wonder, of encouragement. But it’s a lie.

Those little stickers on his head? They’re called NIRS and they cost $500 each. They change them daily. Let that sink in for a minute….


We didn’t sign up for this. Zach and I didn’t sit down when I got pregnant and decide we wanted to have a child with a heart condition or that needed breathing support or that we couldn’t bring home for months after birth.

But, that’s what happened.

And so we deal with it. We laugh. We cry. We learn all we can. We do what we do not because we’re stronger than anyone else or because we’re more equipped or because we want to. We do what we do because we have to. Because that’s what you do for your children, your family, or your friends.

I’m as guilty as the next person when it comes to using this phrase. I still find myself saying it, wondering how parents of children who have it worse than we do do it everyday.

‘You’re so strong’, I say. ‘I could never do what you do.’

Then I remember. I could, I would, and I do.


3 thoughts on “you could and you would.

  1. it’s unconditional love that get all of us through the day. you and Zack are the example we all should follow. got you covered with prayers. Aunt Mem


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